Mistress Switch Submissive Spanking
If you’re into switch BDSM, it can be tempting to let the desire for being Dom or sub take over whenever it hits. It’s better to be safe by establishing a routine. For example, you can alternate roles in each scene.
Rogue says that this is called a switch, and it’s a dynamic worth exploring.
What to Expect
You may be familiar with dominant and submissive in BDSM. Some people are naturally inclined to play both roles. Others prefer to switch depending on their mood, the scene, and the vibe. In this case, you’re called a switch.
Switching roles doesn’t mean that you’re a pushover. It means you enjoy the discipline and challenge of being submissive. Having the ability to change up your role and experience what it’s like to be a Dom or a bottom can lead to mind-blowing orgasms.
If you’re interested in trying out switch BDSM, it’s important to communicate your preferences and limitations clearly with your partner. It’s a good idea to have a “safeword” or other signal for when things get uncomfortable.
Our Mistresses at Pandora’s Box Dungeon NY are experienced and familiar with the switch BDSM. They know how to make a session safe, fun and sexy. They will always respect the submissive’s limits and provide a well-balanced, enjoyable scene. They will also be interested in honest feedback following the session and offer Aftercare so that the switch feels comfortable. This is the first step to a lasting and rewarding kink experience.
Getting Started
Switching is a kink and BDSM play dynamic whereby one person enjoys both the dominant and submissive roles in a scene. Some switches may engage in this with the same partner, although some may prefer to switch from one role to the other for different scenes and with various partners.
It is important that the slapper knows exactly what she wants from her spanking session and communicate this clearly with their partner. It is important to agree on a safe word so that the submissive will know what to do when things get overwhelming. This could be a code-word or a series of words to stop the scene immediately, depending on the triggers in the submissive.
It is important for you to know what parts of her body she likes to be spanked and which are dangerous. Blows to her lower back or side of spine can be dangerous, as this is where her kidneys are.
If you’re new to slapping it is best to start slow and gradually increase the intensity and frequency of your punishments. Be sure to pump her a few times before delivering the first blows and use your fingers to feel how soft her flesh is. This will allow you to gauge the intensity of your slapping.
During the Session
When people think of BDSM, they often think of the Dom/Sub dynamic. While we all know what it looks like (a man topping a woman, for example), there are kinksters who enjoy being “switches.”
Rogue explains that a switch is a BDSM member who switches between being a Dom or a sub at any given time. The decision on which role they play usually depends on the mood and context of the scene, but can also be a matter of preference.
Whether you are a switch or not, it’s important to remember that you need to communicate with your partner about what turns you on. You can also try experimenting with a slew of different activities to see which ones you’re most drawn to. As with any kink, it’s important to practice safely and to have regular sessions.
When it comes to spanking, Mimsy recommends that you take the time to process the pain afterwards. You can do this either by checking in on yourself, assessing your body’s tension and releasing it, or by reimagining pain as something different, such as warmth. You can then approach your next session confidently. You may find it easier to process the pain if you’re a switch, because you can change the roles in between sessions.
After the Session
Switches can use kinky games to improve their skills and confidence, or as a mental exercise. They may do it as a way of relaxing, having fun, or as punishment.
Some switches are very kinky, and enjoy playing as both Dom and bottom. Some people find that a certain role is better suited to their personality, and they choose to alternate scenes. This is a great way for all parties to get the most from their dynamic and explore different fantasies.
The key to a good switching session is clear and open communication. All partners should discuss their expectations and desires before the session begins, including what kinks they want to explore and what is on/off the table during play, their phobias and allergies, and their experience level. It is important to set a safe word and to check-in with each other throughout the session to ensure everyone is comfortable and happy.
A professional switch is experienced in a variety of BDSM activities, and is knowledgeable in kinks and safety. They will be able to guide you through your first sessions, and help you build up the confidence you need to try more extreme kinks. They will also be able to help you set up and maintain your kink profile, so that you can start exploring new areas of kink with other people.